Marrying my boyfriend is going to be the most heartfelt experience of my life. Marriage is easily the number one milestone in life. Even though I'm eager to marry, I don't want him to rush anything including the proposal. If you're lucky, you will only have to go through one engagement. In saying that, you only get one chance to make it perfect.
After doing some research I compiled of list for the men in our lives. Here you will see a few tips and pointers for popping the big question. Also, ladies, if you're eager to get engagement and you're dropping not so subtle hints, just let your man breathe a little. If he has made it clear where you stand with him, and marriage is the end game, then let him take his time. The wait may be well worth it.
IF SHE TRULY LOVES YOU SHE WILL WAIT
Guys, if you made it clear that you want marriage, don't feel the pressure to rush. If most women are like me, when you feel marriage impending, you start overthinking. You start planning it before he even ask you to marry him. You're dropping subtle hints that you're ready when he's ready. You're thinking of how he's going to do it and dreaming of it constantly. You have already labeled yourself "pre-engaged." Don't let this overly anxious behavior turn your boyfriend off, or make him feel pressured. Appreciate the now. Realize that you were happy and things were great before you caught wind of a potential engagement. For the guys, take your time and don't feel pressured.
YOU'RE ASKING HER TO DEVOTE HERSELF TO YOU SO MAKE IT GRAND
Getting down on one knee and asking someone to spend the rest of their lives committed to you, is a major thing. Most men think women just want marriage. They think we only care about that big wedding and being more than a girlfriend. No. Having someone ask for your HAND IN MARRIAGE is a big deal. It's the most humbling, loving moment in your life. It's honoring, so make it feel that way. Go all out! Even if you're just sitting at home, and you want to pop the question randomly, at least make the presentation grand.
ANXIETY HAS KICKED IN AND THE RING IS BURNING A HOLE IN YOUR POCKET
Fellas, you got the ring. In this moment, things start to feel more real. You have made a big investment. Likely, there is no turning back for you at this point, but don't jump the gun. Even if you know your lady is eager for you to ask, she will appreciate a well thought out proposal in the end.
THINK OF HER INTEREST
Again, if you're lucky, you'll only ever have to do this one time, so make it count. Think about what she likes. Her interest, her hobbies. Try to incorporate that into how you propose. If she loves the beach, surfing, or swimming, make it a beach proposal. If she enjoys nature, maybe propose in a greenhouse, or in a garden.
Last, but not least
DO NOT WING IT
Practice what you are going to say to her before you propose. You're likely to be a nervous wreck, and you don't want this heartfelt speech to be riddled with "um" and "uh." Take some key notes of subjects you want to touch base on. Rehearse a little bit. Preparing for this will let her know how much asking her to be your wife, means to you. It will also show, that you want her to see how this means for her.